Tuesday, September 12, 2006

The Talkers & the Listeners

I'm convinced that there are two types of people in the world. . .talkers and listeners. I don't think there is anything wrong with either. Traditionally, I'm a listener. That does not mean that I don't enjoy good conversation. I can communicate with the best of them, but if it came down to it. . .I'd rather absorb than be absorbed. BUT--on occassion, this "listener" needs to be listened to. I have to be in the right MOOD for this type of interaction. I have to feel comfortable and confident with those I'm confiding in. I require feedback, positive reinforcement, honesty, find-out questioning, empathy, and sometimes a strong dose of reality. Today I'm grateful for people in my life who know when I need a listener. For people who listen to me complain about hard days and rejoice with me when I find goodness in everyday life.

laj&jcl. . .you're the best. Thanks.

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